Most people are not aware of what their names signify. While most names have no great importance in their meaning, some have very interesting reasons for being chosen. In this book, mothers carefully choose names for their daughters with regard to their future. With names such as Justa and Victoria, it would make sense for great things to happen in their lives. However, just and victorious these women were not, as the women in this family have a strange curse in which they become the opposite of their names. While the most recent girl to be born in the bloodline is "Felicitas," a name promising happiness and fortune, she is very unhappy. But is the chosen name to blame, or something else?
Felicitas was born to 17-year-old Angustias, a very carefree, spirited young woman. Angustias left her mother Olvido, an unforgiving woman, after they had gotten into a heated argument. Since then, Felicitas has grown up without a place to call home or any friends as her mother moves from place to place, never settling in one spot.
One morning, Felicitas wakes to finally meet her estranged grandmother. She is stern, distant, and…dead. Instead of being the kind, loving, and alive grandmother that Felicitas has longed for, Olvido is a very demanding, inattentive, and irritating ghost. Determined to be rid of the spirit, Felicitas helps her grandmother with her final wishes: convincing her mom to return to her childhood home. What follows is a magical family drama of shedding intergenerational trauma and finding peace with each other.
During the 2020 pandemic, the author, Anamely Salgado Reyes, moved in with her mother. While reminiscing over family history, Reyes wrote My Mother Cursed My Name with her families’ memories and emotions as inspiration for this beautiful work of magical realism. Since the book is about healing family rifts, there are many heartfelt scenes in the book, such as the grandmother's teaching the grandchild to cook. The many emotional scenes will make you tear up and smile at the same time.
I’ve always enjoyed books where food plays an important role and have loved trying to cook the food to enjoy with the book. Green spaghetti is now one of my favorite Mexican dishes! Readers will also love this book if they enjoy magical realism with heart and familial stories.